If you have just one person with whom you can be weak, miserable and contrite, and who won't hurt you for it, then you are rich.
The best thing about girlfriends is that we can be whoever we are with them, and they will accept us anyway. No persona required, we can be cranky or perky - and both may be annoying - with greasy hair and a sweater two sizes too small that's covered with ugly little balls. It really does not matter to our close friends that we look like or what mood we're in.
The comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person; having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but to pour them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, knowing that a faithful hand will take sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then, with the breath of kindness, blow the rest away.
Accepting one another without reservation is part of the magic of the friendship. When behavior that ought to drive you crazy makes you laugh instead, then you know you found a true friend. :))
TOEPHEE # 21.03.12 :))
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